I often supervise other practitioners in their work with people who present very complex challenges and are often people who manage their suffering by harming others. When I ask the practitioners how they are managing their own wellbeing in this work, I often get the...
This week, I had the opportunity to work with a client to help him understand his harmful sexual behaviour. In my experience, much of this behaviour emerges, at least in part, from projection. Projection is a psychodynamic concept that essentially means we find our...
…is a question I’m often asked when people find out that I spend a lot of my time working with men who have committed serious acts of sexual violence. The disgust response is pretty normal and is a key survival strategy for us when faced with things we perceive as...
Conscious communication is the art of expressing ourselves mindfully, considering the impact of our words and actions on others. I personally take the view that pretty much 99% of our communication is basically about our unconscious projections onto...
